Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Lily Kelly with the following comment:
Lily Kelly, nee Dale, my great grandfather’s sister. Born Yorkshire, married Isle of Man, apparently moved to sons home in later years. This son was Selwyn who started a local manx society. I think it was Birmingham Manx. Thank you in advance. Last request I made turned out to be a red herring, but this is exactly the lady. I have a lovely photo of her.